Manifest Your Goals Using These 5 Steps!

Hey guys!

In case you were wondering what happened to the rest of the video above, there is more!

I wanted to take time out to share with my readers some of the wonderful things that I’ve come across along my journey. In particular, the concept of manifesting goals has been at the top of my list.

Lately, I’ve been experiencing some of the most wonderful things because I’ve been able to apply lessons that I’ve gathered over the years to make my dreams come true. With lots of practice, and much trial and error, I think I’ve gotten this whole manifestation thing down to a science. And that’s what I want to share with you.

When you follow this link and sign up, you’ll get access to the entire video where I speak in detail on how these five steps can help you manifest your goals.

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Once you’ve watched the video, feel free to comment in the comment section with any questions or ideas that you’d like to share. I’d love to hear from you!

Love,

@BCSTARKS

Featured Dream Chaser: 1st Time Reporter Kayla Haley Faces Fears and Shines Light On @HoneyChildTracy ‘s Female Youth Empowerment Program

Kayla Haley

Meet Kayla Haley , a humble and extremely ambitious 18-year old who was among 19 other high school student reporters that I had the privilege to work with this past summer at the 30th annual James Ansin and Peace Sullivan High School Workshop in Journalism and New Media program. Her goal, to be able to tell stories that make a difference.

For her, like a few of the other student participants, it was a first time experience having to do research, contact complete strangers and interview them to pull a story together for the multiple media platforms. And boy was she nervous! I recall her being concerned about not having the experience of other student reporters, and being fearful of not landing the right interviews. But nonetheless, she landed all of the right interviews, including one with Tracy Mourning,  wife of former NBA All-star Alonzo Mourning as part of a feature on her non-profit girl empowerment organization Honey Shine.

As a mentor, I was able to go with Kayla on interviews with Honey Shine Director Edlyn Griffith, Tracy Mourning, and some of the “Honey Bug” participants. I was most impressed by the in-the-moment confidence, as well as the highest level of professionalism that she displayed.  She inspired me to share her story with my readers because she’s an example of how a “getting scared, but doing it anyway” approach can lead one closer to goals and dreams than being passive. In her article, Kayla tells the story of why Tracy started Honey Shine, and the effect that the program has had on young girls across South Florida. Check out her story below:

HONEY SHINE- Shine On

Kayla didn’t just face her fears while discovering what it means to be a journalist, but she showed resilience and tenacity after being told that her Honey Shine story would not be published due to technical difficulties.  As devastating as this news was, Kayla was ON TO THE NEXT! Hard work and determination, and one heartfelt pep-talk with yours truly not only allowed her to regroup and set out to do an entirely different story with media components, but she won the workshop’s Best Story 2013 Award! Whoop whoop! Click on the image below to read her investigative story on how homeless teens solicit help on social media.

Photo: I still can't believe this! Thank you again to everyone at Montage who made these past three weeks more than amazing! And thank you to my family and friends who prayed for me while I was gone!

I’d say that she’s already gotten a great start on setting her goals in motion. Hope you’re inspired too!

Love,

@BCSTARKS

P.S.- Check out the other amazing stories on Homeless Youth in South Florida by participants in the JAPS Journalism and New Media Workshop here:

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Are You A Prisoner Of Fear?

The topic of fear has been one that I’ve visited often on the blog. Mostly because it’s the main source of many things that keep us separate from our truths. I still struggle with my own fears as I try to figure out my path and challenge old beliefs that no longer serve me. And man is it difficult to shatter learned paradigms!

Let’s be honest, we all know what it feels like to have hopes and dreams. But most of us know more about just wishing than we do the sweet taste of victory that accomplishing goals can bring. That’s because all too often we are so quick to talk ourselves right off the path of achieving them because we fear that we aren’t good enough, don’t have enough time or money, or resources, etc…

How then, do we ever expect things to change if we’re not willing to meet GOD halfway? After all, we are 100% responsible for our 50% part in co-creation with HIM. Dreams don’t just fall in one’s lap. You have to do more than just pray, you have to take bold and swift action.

“But wilt thou know, O vain man, that faith without works is dead”- James 2:20 KJV

When you’ve done all that you can do with the spirit of excellence, God will match your effort with miraculous results. Sounds like something that you already know intellectually, right? Me too! Lol But that’s where this notion of fearful imprisonment comes in.

Being a prisoner of fear means playing small and shying away from your highest expression of self. It’s that thing you do instead of going after your dreams, or letting your voice be heard on things that matter most to you. Being a prisoner of fear means procrastination, because it’s much scarier to begin a thing, than it is to avoid it. Being a prisoner of fear means running away from the very things that you’ve always yearned for because to run towards it would almost make it too good to be true. As if you don’t deserve it… !!! Being a prisoner of fear means staying stuck in a cycle that just won’t let things get better for you.

Why we put ourselves through such agony and misery at times is one of humanities most sought after mysteries. So much so that religions have been formed around the very idea of either reasoning fear, easing fear or creating more of it.

Being a prisoner of fear is not what God intended for us, yet its the source of overcoming for many people’s journey. Often seen as a great protector, fear only means imprisonment when we keep ourselves separate from the expansion of spirit, and the new-found awareness to do and be more in life.  The result is we avoid honoring our callings, talents, visions, desires all because it scares us far more to face the fear than to overcome it.

Are you a prisoner fear? If, so I’d like to know how you came to realize it and what you aspire to do to overcome it. Feel free to comment below or shoot me an email and your testimony can be featured on the blog!

Until next time,

❤ @BCSTARKS

Brittnay’s Corner: Holiday Hopes for All

I started this blog  about 9 months ago with the intention of inspiring as many people as possible to follow their dreams and be encouraged. As my readers know, since I have stated so in many of my posts, I often share  the things that inspire me because like others, I can often use the same encouragement.

This year I’ve undergone so much growth and improvement, as I am sure you have also. And much like you, I still have more room to grow. For example, although I have become a lot less fearful of taking chances, I still have fears about what the future holds for me. Yes, I am optimistic and hopeful, but I’m honest about the fact that sometimes I wish I could control more than what I am able to (control freak much?!… Don’t judge me. Lol)

Seriously, this time of year always gives me that “you have got to get it together” feeling… and I’m not sure if that’s necessarily a good thing. But what I am sure about is that I now know how important it is to trust and respect life’s processes, because no matter how much we may plan and hope and wish and pray for something other than what is with us in the present moment,  life will have its way with us and make sure that we learn the lessons that we are meant to learn in this lifetime.

My holiday hopes for myself and everyone who is reading this is that, while moving forward in our journeys, we will be open to trusting life a little bit more, believing  in ourselves a little bit more, letting our light shine a little bit more, and have the determination to not let anyone or anything steer us off course from our goals and dreams.

With that being said, Happy Holidays to all!

 

Love,

@BCSTARKS

P.S.-  Check out what one of my favorite up and coming hair companies, B Long LLC wishes for everyone this holiday season. BTW, this is the dream that I have worked towards all this time that has required much inspiration on my part. It’s all coming together slowly but surely.  😉