How Creating A New Blueprint Can Change Your Life Story

These past couple of months have been a bit of a challenge for me. Not only have I been on an emotional roller coaster, but I’ve found myself conflicted about the direction that I was willing to allow my life to take. Just when I thought I had it all mapped out, life showed me that maybe I don’t have the answers that I thought I did.

Ever been there before?

Well I’m here. And just as I was preparing to go into hiding and sulk about how much my life sucks right now because nothing is going the way I want it to, I came across a video by none other than Tony Robbins. This video titled “Create A New Story” was right on time. In it, Tony addresses the issue of how to get unstuck by changing your blueprint. He defines a “blueprint” as the way that a person believes life should be according to his or her experiences, upbringing, religion, etc… For me, I hadn’t realized how hard I had been on myself for so long because I was so concerned with what others would think about the decisions that I have made in my life thus far… As if they had all the answers to life. I had become so married to this idea about how things were supposed to be that I became bitter with my reality because it was so far from the life that I want, and for that I have suffered massively. From bouts of depression, strong resentment, anxiety attacks, self-doubt, crippling fear of the unknown, and outright anger. I have experienced it all, and its been a path of mental and emotional torture.

“Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies”- Nelson Mandela

That is, until I watched this video. The message that Tony brings home is that to experience happiness and live the life that you can be proud of, you have to be willing to change your view of how things are supposed to be. We as humans have to learn to let go of the ideals that make up the so-called perfect life, and shift to being open to the fact that there is no such thing as one way to be happy. We have to take massive action towards that things that will help us get closer to our goals, or change our blueprint of what success looks like.

An example he uses is that of a former professional basketball player who suffered career ending injuries. This particular player was now living some of his darkest days because his livelihood had been ripped away from him and he could not see any other way to get back to life as he knew it. He became depressed and angry, and lost sight of his purpose because his blueprint had always been to take care of his family through what he had always been great at, basketball. He found so many people to blame for why he was so unhappy, including GOD, and he could not bring himself to see that life could be better in spite of what had happened to him. It wasn’t until Tony showed him that life was only miserable because he was only allowing himself to see things one way, that he became more open to changing his perception of a perfect life.

It was such a beautiful revelation for both this former basketball player and myself. So much so, that I decided to share part of my journey here with you, as well as the very video that helped me realize the damage that I was doing to myself, and to finally be open to a new paradigm and way of life.

Check it out below and let me know what you think.

Peace, Love, and Revelations!- @BCStarks

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What I Know About “I AM…”

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Everyday that we awaken, we have the power to create our reality. Every reality that we experience once began as a mere thought, perception, idea about what is and what we hope will be. No matter what energy space each idea originates from, if persistently held as a truth within the believer, it will manifest itself as a physical reality. This concept is what I have accepted as a truth for me. Therefore, I am constantly in the process of unlearning and rejecting any and every thought form that no longer serves me and my grandest vision for my life, as well as the lives of those that I love. In learning the power of the words “I AM” which is the name of GOD, I now understand my true power on Earth and in spirit. 

We are creators. We are constantly creating, in every moment, hour, minute, second of everyday… and in every way. Our creations are either formed out of love or out of fear. As part of our spiritual contracts with the Divine, we were each sent here to teach life and those that we encounter the truth of what we always have and always will know in spirit. We each were sent here to embody the truth from every aspect of TRUTH in and of itself. Truth is that which reigns as solid and constant for the believer and his vision of his highest self. When we declare that which “I AM…” as the beginning statement of our truths, we are beginning to manifest all that comes along with that truth so long as we persistently hold it as a core belief. Whether it is a statement that we truly desire or not is never a factor. The only determining factor of its manifestation is whether we consciously hold on to it as a core belief, good or bad as it may be. We create our realities, we create our lives, we create our world… Yes, one individual at a time, beginning with self. 

As I continue to evolve, I challenge myself constantly to release anything whose origin is not love. We all have experienced the differences between the two worlds. We all know how drastically differing in results each source can be. Why not actively participate in our experience here on Earth rather than inactively observing all that goes on? As I challenge myself to live life from a space of “believing it in” first, I openly challenge you whose eyes have graced these words to do the same. While I do this, I envision for you a more peaceful, abundant, loving, healthy, and wealthy experience while here on earth. Those things which I believe within for myself, I extend to you. I know that these things will come to pass for you because of the space from which they come from within me. The space of LOVE.

 

Namaste,

@BCSTARKS