The key to experiencing better relationships comes from the idea of learning how to see the best in others. If you constantly dwell on what you don’t like about someone, you will typically draw more of what you do not like from that person. If your disposition about a person is always negative, then the basis of your experience with that person will be negative.
The opposite is also true. If you can learn to give your attention to the best qualities in a person, rather than the negative ones, then your experience with that person will be more pleasant than not.
Our perception of the world around us is based on how we choose to see things. When we label someone because of how we choose to see them, our perception of them is not WHO they are. It’s only a perception that we hold of them based on what we choose to see in them.
If you can learn to change your focus, then you can change your relationship with any, and every person in your life. Especially the most important relationship of all; your relationship with YOU! (Check out more about this topic here)